父母出国后，那些留在家的福清孩子，后来怎么样了？
<!----><style type="text/css">html{font-size:375%}</style><link href="https://pic.app.fqlook.com/static/publish/css/style.css?v=1605251010491" rel="stylesheet" position="1" data-qf-origin="/static/publish/css/style.css?v=1605251010491"><div class="preview_article "> <!----> <p>说到福清大家就会想到“侨乡”</p><p> </p><p>想到“捞金”，想到“有钱”</p><p> </p><p>但对于福清人来说</p><p> </p><p>更多的是“分割两地的家人”</p><p class="qf_image big noneditable" contenteditable="false"><img src="https://pic.app.fqlook.com/forum/20220616184244front1_0_155891_FiK_wz9udCjeQvDIkKjpol8gJNTY.jpg?watermark/3/image/aHR0cDovL3BpYy5hcHAuZnFsb29rLmNvbS9fMjAxODExMDUyMjMyMzRfNWJlMDU0ODI0NmU1NS5wbmc=/dissolve/80/gravity/South/dx/10/dy/65/text/QOaZtOWkqTc4MA==/fontsize/400/dissolve/80/gravity/South/fill/I2E4YThhOA==/font/5b6u6L2v6ZuF6buR/dx/10/dy/35" alt="" width="1080" height="720" data-qf-origin="forum/20220616184244front1_0_155891_FiK_wz9udCjeQvDIkKjpol8gJNTY.jpg?watermark/3/image/aHR0cDovL3BpYy5hcHAuZnFsb29rLmNvbS9fMjAxODExMDUyMjMyMzRfNWJlMDU0ODI0NmU1NS5wbmc=/dissolve/80/gravity/South/dx/10/dy/65/text/QOaZtOWkqTc4MA==/fontsize/400/dissolve/80/gravity/South/fill/I2E4YThhOA==/font/5b6u6L2v6ZuF6buR/dx/10/dy/35" /></p><p>家的三分之三</p><p> </p><p>他出生在福清，一个普通的三口家庭</p><p>小时候家里不算富裕，但对孩子来说没有区别</p><p>在田地里乱跑，和家门口的老狗玩闹</p><p>这足以让一个孩子心满意足的过上一天</p><p> </p><p>这样的日子好像永远也不会有尽头</p><p class="qf_image big noneditable" contenteditable="false"><img src="https://pic.app.fqlook.com/forum/20220616184301front1_0_155891_FhAYa19TqNvxu51GgdNm9owWTJ6j.jpg?watermark/3/image/aHR0cDovL3BpYy5hcHAuZnFsb29rLmNvbS9fMjAxODExMDUyMjMyMzRfNWJlMDU0ODI0NmU1NS5wbmc=/dissolve/80/gravity/South/dx/10/dy/65/text/QOaZtOWkqTc4MA==/fontsize/400/dissolve/80/gravity/South/fill/I2E4YThhOA==/font/5b6u6L2v6ZuF6buR/dx/10/dy/35" alt="" width="1080" height="806" data-qf-origin="forum/20220616184301front1_0_155891_FhAYa19TqNvxu51GgdNm9owWTJ6j.jpg?watermark/3/image/aHR0cDovL3BpYy5hcHAuZnFsb29rLmNvbS9fMjAxODExMDUyMjMyMzRfNWJlMDU0ODI0NmU1NS5wbmc=/dissolve/80/gravity/South/dx/10/dy/65/text/QOaZtOWkqTc4MA==/fontsize/400/dissolve/80/gravity/South/fill/I2E4YThhOA==/font/5b6u6L2v6ZuF6buR/dx/10/dy/35" /></p><p>只是父母需要考虑的事情更多</p><p>而重中之重就是改善家里的生活条件</p><p> </p><p>父母只是两个普通人，没有什么赚钱的门路</p><p>唯一有的就是父亲那个在几年前出国的兄弟</p><p class="qf_image big noneditable" contenteditable="false"><img src="https://pic.app.fqlook.com/forum/20220616184315front1_0_155891_FicweuTD5g8z9-Vkxycw9wXJwUnR.jpg?watermark/3/image/aHR0cDovL3BpYy5hcHAuZnFsb29rLmNvbS9fMjAxODExMDUyMjMyMzRfNWJlMDU0ODI0NmU1NS5wbmc=/dissolve/80/gravity/South/dx/10/dy/65/text/QOaZtOWkqTc4MA==/fontsize/400/dissolve/80/gravity/South/fill/I2E4YThhOA==/font/5b6u6L2v6ZuF6buR/dx/10/dy/35" alt="" width="800" height="393" data-qf-origin="forum/20220616184315front1_0_155891_FicweuTD5g8z9-Vkxycw9wXJwUnR.jpg?watermark/3/image/aHR0cDovL3BpYy5hcHAuZnFsb29rLmNvbS9fMjAxODExMDUyMjMyMzRfNWJlMDU0ODI0NmU1NS5wbmc=/dissolve/80/gravity/South/dx/10/dy/65/text/QOaZtOWkqTc4MA==/fontsize/400/dissolve/80/gravity/South/fill/I2E4YThhOA==/font/5b6u6L2v6ZuF6buR/dx/10/dy/35" /></p><p>家的三分之二</p><p> </p><p>父亲离开家的时候他还小</p><p>关于“出国”这个词没有具体的概念</p><p> </p><p>只知道“出国”之后，父亲就从这个家里消失了</p><p>严厉的父亲不见了，他一开始还有些庆幸</p><p>只是偶尔看到形单影只的母亲</p><p>他也会觉得有些落寞</p><p class="qf_image big noneditable" contenteditable="false"><img src="https://pic.app.fqlook.com/forum/20220616184327front1_0_155891_Fg4zA14z6KEHh9tkyE3gRnibFR37.jpg?watermark/3/image/aHR0cDovL3BpYy5hcHAuZnFsb29rLmNvbS9fMjAxODExMDUyMjMyMzRfNWJlMDU0ODI0NmU1NS5wbmc=/dissolve/80/gravity/South/dx/10/dy/65/text/QOaZtOWkqTc4MA==/fontsize/400/dissolve/80/gravity/South/fill/I2E4YThhOA==/font/5b6u6L2v6ZuF6buR/dx/10/dy/35" alt="" width="1023" height="539" data-qf-origin="forum/20220616184327front1_0_155891_Fg4zA14z6KEHh9tkyE3gRnibFR37.jpg?watermark/3/image/aHR0cDovL3BpYy5hcHAuZnFsb29rLmNvbS9fMjAxODExMDUyMjMyMzRfNWJlMDU0ODI0NmU1NS5wbmc=/dissolve/80/gravity/South/dx/10/dy/65/text/QOaZtOWkqTc4MA==/fontsize/400/dissolve/80/gravity/South/fill/I2E4YThhOA==/font/5b6u6L2v6ZuF6buR/dx/10/dy/35" /></p><p>上学之后他第一次在课本上</p><p>见到了世界地图</p><p>他第一时间找到了父亲所在的国家</p><p> </p><p>书本上不过十几厘米的距离</p><p>但是却把他的家分成了2/3和1/3两部分</p><p> </p><p>这个年纪的孩子总是喜欢幻想</p><p>他知道父亲出国是为了赚钱</p><p>于是他就经常想象父亲赚够一大笔钱</p><p>拎着大包小包回来的样子</p><p class="qf_image big noneditable" contenteditable="false"><img src="https://pic.app.fqlook.com/forum/20220616184340front1_0_155891_FvAaZMZwsBQIxnUR9t-LBIsRpwVz.jpg?watermark/3/image/aHR0cDovL3BpYy5hcHAuZnFsb29rLmNvbS9fMjAxODExMDUyMjMyMzRfNWJlMDU0ODI0NmU1NS5wbmc=/dissolve/80/gravity/South/dx/10/dy/65/text/QOaZtOWkqTc4MA==/fontsize/400/dissolve/80/gravity/South/fill/I2E4YThhOA==/font/5b6u6L2v6ZuF6buR/dx/10/dy/35" alt="" width="1080" height="1439" data-qf-origin="forum/20220616184340front1_0_155891_FvAaZMZwsBQIxnUR9t-LBIsRpwVz.jpg?watermark/3/image/aHR0cDovL3BpYy5hcHAuZnFsb29rLmNvbS9fMjAxODExMDUyMjMyMzRfNWJlMDU0ODI0NmU1NS5wbmc=/dissolve/80/gravity/South/dx/10/dy/65/text/QOaZtOWkqTc4MA==/fontsize/400/dissolve/80/gravity/South/fill/I2E4YThhOA==/font/5b6u6L2v6ZuF6buR/dx/10/dy/35" /></p><p>家的三分之一</p><p> </p><p>父亲回来了</p><p> </p><p>在他初中的某一天</p><p>父亲突然回来了</p><p>他以为可以回到一家人在一起的日子了</p><p> </p><p>但很快就从父母的对话中察觉到异样</p><p>父亲只是回来一小段时间</p><p>而回来的目的是为了帮着母亲也办一份签证</p><p class="qf_image big noneditable" contenteditable="false"><img src="https://pic.app.fqlook.com/forum/20220616184357front1_0_155891_FubRnv2RHYRzGGVvIY4atmPV94DQ.jpg?watermark/3/image/aHR0cDovL3BpYy5hcHAuZnFsb29rLmNvbS9fMjAxODExMDUyMjMyMzRfNWJlMDU0ODI0NmU1NS5wbmc=/dissolve/80/gravity/South/dx/10/dy/65/text/QOaZtOWkqTc4MA==/fontsize/400/dissolve/80/gravity/South/fill/I2E4YThhOA==/font/5b6u6L2v6ZuF6buR/dx/10/dy/35" alt="" width="1080" height="552" data-qf-origin="forum/20220616184357front1_0_155891_FubRnv2RHYRzGGVvIY4atmPV94DQ.jpg?watermark/3/image/aHR0cDovL3BpYy5hcHAuZnFsb29rLmNvbS9fMjAxODExMDUyMjMyMzRfNWJlMDU0ODI0NmU1NS5wbmc=/dissolve/80/gravity/South/dx/10/dy/65/text/QOaZtOWkqTc4MA==/fontsize/400/dissolve/80/gravity/South/fill/I2E4YThhOA==/font/5b6u6L2v6ZuF6buR/dx/10/dy/35" /></p><p class="empty_paragraph"> </p><p class="qf_image big noneditable" contenteditable="false"><img src="https://pic.app.fqlook.com/forum/20220616184357front1_0_155891_FtHWSu0IoRxNMlOsaXBBxELzHhBy.jpg?watermark/3/image/aHR0cDovL3BpYy5hcHAuZnFsb29rLmNvbS9fMjAxODExMDUyMjMyMzRfNWJlMDU0ODI0NmU1NS5wbmc=/dissolve/80/gravity/South/dx/10/dy/65/text/QOaZtOWkqTc4MA==/fontsize/400/dissolve/80/gravity/South/fill/I2E4YThhOA==/font/5b6u6L2v6ZuF6buR/dx/10/dy/35" alt="" width="1076" height="622" data-qf-origin="forum/20220616184357front1_0_155891_FtHWSu0IoRxNMlOsaXBBxELzHhBy.jpg?watermark/3/image/aHR0cDovL3BpYy5hcHAuZnFsb29rLmNvbS9fMjAxODExMDUyMjMyMzRfNWJlMDU0ODI0NmU1NS5wbmc=/dissolve/80/gravity/South/dx/10/dy/65/text/QOaZtOWkqTc4MA==/fontsize/400/dissolve/80/gravity/South/fill/I2E4YThhOA==/font/5b6u6L2v6ZuF6buR/dx/10/dy/35" /></p><p>现在家里就剩下了他自己</p><p>以及特地过来照顾他的奶奶</p><p> </p><p>以前他出去玩误了饭点会被骂</p><p>现在倒是无论多晚回家都没关系了</p><p> </p><p>晚回家不用再挨骂了</p><p>但回家后看着空落落的房间</p><p>会获得坏心情这件事是没有区别的</p><p class="qf_image big noneditable" contenteditable="false"><img src="https://pic.app.fqlook.com/forum/20220616184411front1_0_155891_FhWL_oDhwDEBJ7yRnAV0Uj7svoib.jpg?watermark/3/image/aHR0cDovL3BpYy5hcHAuZnFsb29rLmNvbS9fMjAxODExMDUyMjMyMzRfNWJlMDU0ODI0NmU1NS5wbmc=/dissolve/80/gravity/South/dx/10/dy/65/text/QOaZtOWkqTc4MA==/fontsize/400/dissolve/80/gravity/South/fill/I2E4YThhOA==/font/5b6u6L2v6ZuF6buR/dx/10/dy/35" alt="" width="1080" height="486" data-qf-origin="forum/20220616184411front1_0_155891_FhWL_oDhwDEBJ7yRnAV0Uj7svoib.jpg?watermark/3/image/aHR0cDovL3BpYy5hcHAuZnFsb29rLmNvbS9fMjAxODExMDUyMjMyMzRfNWJlMDU0ODI0NmU1NS5wbmc=/dissolve/80/gravity/South/dx/10/dy/65/text/QOaZtOWkqTc4MA==/fontsize/400/dissolve/80/gravity/South/fill/I2E4YThhOA==/font/5b6u6L2v6ZuF6buR/dx/10/dy/35" /></p><p>家的三分之零</p><p> </p><p>青春期的时候人总是</p><p>倾向于隐藏内心最真实的想法</p><p> </p><p>但是在父亲准备带着母亲再次出国的时候</p><p>他还是对“出国”这条路发出了质疑</p><p>国外到底有什么好的？</p><p class="qf_image big noneditable" contenteditable="false"><img src="https://pic.app.fqlook.com/forum/20220616184430front1_0_155891_FhWL_oDhwDEBJ7yRnAV0Uj7svoib.jpg?watermark/3/image/aHR0cDovL3BpYy5hcHAuZnFsb29rLmNvbS9fMjAxODExMDUyMjMyMzRfNWJlMDU0ODI0NmU1NS5wbmc=/dissolve/80/gravity/South/dx/10/dy/65/text/QOaZtOWkqTc4MA==/fontsize/400/dissolve/80/gravity/South/fill/I2E4YThhOA==/font/5b6u6L2v6ZuF6buR/dx/10/dy/35" alt="" width="1080" height="486" data-qf-origin="forum/20220616184430front1_0_155891_FhWL_oDhwDEBJ7yRnAV0Uj7svoib.jpg?watermark/3/image/aHR0cDovL3BpYy5hcHAuZnFsb29rLmNvbS9fMjAxODExMDUyMjMyMzRfNWJlMDU0ODI0NmU1NS5wbmc=/dissolve/80/gravity/South/dx/10/dy/65/text/QOaZtOWkqTc4MA==/fontsize/400/dissolve/80/gravity/South/fill/I2E4YThhOA==/font/5b6u6L2v6ZuF6buR/dx/10/dy/35" /></p><p class="empty_paragraph"> </p><p class="qf_image big noneditable" contenteditable="false"><img src="https://pic.app.fqlook.com/forum/20220616184430front1_0_155891_Fmppd3AfhjCcWor5z0785FPFWrab.jpg?watermark/3/image/aHR0cDovL3BpYy5hcHAuZnFsb29rLmNvbS9fMjAxODExMDUyMjMyMzRfNWJlMDU0ODI0NmU1NS5wbmc=/dissolve/80/gravity/South/dx/10/dy/65/text/QOaZtOWkqTc4MA==/fontsize/400/dissolve/80/gravity/South/fill/I2E4YThhOA==/font/5b6u6L2v6ZuF6buR/dx/10/dy/35" alt="" width="1080" height="903" data-qf-origin="forum/20220616184430front1_0_155891_Fmppd3AfhjCcWor5z0785FPFWrab.jpg?watermark/3/image/aHR0cDovL3BpYy5hcHAuZnFsb29rLmNvbS9fMjAxODExMDUyMjMyMzRfNWJlMDU0ODI0NmU1NS5wbmc=/dissolve/80/gravity/South/dx/10/dy/65/text/QOaZtOWkqTc4MA==/fontsize/400/dissolve/80/gravity/South/fill/I2E4YThhOA==/font/5b6u6L2v6ZuF6buR/dx/10/dy/35" /></p><p>当然他的反抗是徒劳的</p><p> </p><p>出国是条好出路</p><p>在国外拼搏个几年，就能回家盖“大厝”</p><p>这是大部分福清人公认的事情</p><p>他父母都坚定地走在这条路上</p><p> </p><p>临近高考，他的成绩平平说不上好坏</p><p>如果寻常父母这时候会希望他再拼一把</p><p>但他父母出国后就没有太在意他的成绩了</p><p> </p><p>倒也不是因为太远管不着</p><p>而是他们早就准备好了</p><p> </p><p>读书读不下去，那就直接出国</p><p>而他最后也没有能参加高考</p><p>办理留学手续也出国去了</p><p class="qf_image big noneditable" contenteditable="false"><img src="https://pic.app.fqlook.com/forum/20220616184445front1_0_155891_Fkuwv8RiEy7NQp4LPRQopkORjeUE.jpg?watermark/3/image/aHR0cDovL3BpYy5hcHAuZnFsb29rLmNvbS9fMjAxODExMDUyMjMyMzRfNWJlMDU0ODI0NmU1NS5wbmc=/dissolve/80/gravity/South/dx/10/dy/65/text/QOaZtOWkqTc4MA==/fontsize/400/dissolve/80/gravity/South/fill/I2E4YThhOA==/font/5b6u6L2v6ZuF6buR/dx/10/dy/35" alt="" width="1080" height="647" data-qf-origin="forum/20220616184445front1_0_155891_Fkuwv8RiEy7NQp4LPRQopkORjeUE.jpg?watermark/3/image/aHR0cDovL3BpYy5hcHAuZnFsb29rLmNvbS9fMjAxODExMDUyMjMyMzRfNWJlMDU0ODI0NmU1NS5wbmc=/dissolve/80/gravity/South/dx/10/dy/65/text/QOaZtOWkqTc4MA==/fontsize/400/dissolve/80/gravity/South/fill/I2E4YThhOA==/font/5b6u6L2v6ZuF6buR/dx/10/dy/35" /></p><p>差那么点感觉的家</p><p> </p><p>出国之后三人团聚</p><p>但并没有预想中的“回家”的感觉</p><p> </p><p>大概他也是个福清人</p><p>总归还是要住在自己的房子里</p><p>才会有“家”的感觉</p><p> </p><p>用父亲的话来说就是</p><p>每天下班脚踏进屋子里</p><p>都觉得自己没有踩实</p><p>……</p><p> </p><p> </p><p> </p><p>有一个词叫做“报复性消费”</p><p> </p><p>就是在长久的缺失切渴望过后</p><p> </p><p>终于拥有了足够的条件</p><p> </p><p>会进行的超过需求的消费行为</p><p> </p><p> </p><p> </p><p>这也许就是福清农村常常见到“豪宅”的原因</p><p> </p><p>因为对有归属感且完整的家的渴望</p><p> </p><p>才想要一个大房子来弥补</p><p> </p><p>这十几年甚至几十年“家”的缺失</p><p> </p><p>……</p><p> </p><p class="">来源 福清网</p> <!----></div> 福清人报复性消费的心态太重了 福清农村“豪宅”只是用来展示而不是住人，一年就热闹几天 出国打拼是对国内现状失望的表现 其实，这是福清人的悲哀，在家乡挣不到钱，都只能往外地，外国，打拼。夫妻分开，父母子女分开，多么的可怜！却笑话外地人怎样怎样的，可笑 父母都给家里小孩安排好了 很多福清人的现状 都是为了生活，迫于无奈 如果在国内过的好好的 谁还愿意背井离乡呢 因为对有归属感且完整的家的渴望才想要一个大房子来弥补