2021社交中的5条黄金定律
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!important;">实力定律</strong></p></section></section><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;display: inline-block;vertical-align: middle;width: 216.621px;flex: 0 0 auto;align-self: center;height: auto;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;display: inline-block;vertical-align: top;width: 72.1875px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><svg viewbox="0 0 1 1" style="float:left;line-height:0;width:0;vertical-align:top;"></svg></section></section><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;display: inline-block;vertical-align: top;width: 72.1875px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><svg viewbox="0 0 1 1" style="float:left;line-height:0;width:0;vertical-align:top;"></svg></section></section><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;display: inline-block;vertical-align: top;width: 72.1875px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="margin-top: 20px;margin-bottom: 20px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;text-align: center;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;display: inline-block;width: 16px;height: 16px;vertical-align: top;overflow: hidden;background-color: rgb(220, 249, 237);border-width: 0px;border-radius: 20px;border-style: none;border-color: rgb(62, 62, 62);overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><svg viewbox="0 0 1 1" style="float:left;line-height:0;width:0;vertical-align:top;"></svg></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section style="margin-top: -30px;margin-bottom: 10px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;line-height: 1.75em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;display: inline-block;width: 676.992px;vertical-align: top;background-color: rgba(85, 180, 148, 0.13);overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="margin-top: 50px;margin-bottom: 30px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="padding-right: 30px;padding-left: 30px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;color: rgb(85, 180, 148);line-height: 1.8;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">心理学上，有个“跷跷板定律”：</span></section><section style="max-width: 100%;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"/></section><section style="max-width: 100%;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">“人和人之间的关系，就像两人踩跷跷板。长久维系，需要双方能力对等。</span></section><section style="max-width: 100%;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"/></section><section style="max-width: 100%;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">如果彼此的价值不对等，这段关系就会像跷跷板一样失衡。”</span></section><section style="max-width: 100%;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"/></section><section style="max-width: 100%;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">成年人的友谊，多是势均力敌。</span></section><section style="max-width: 100%;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br/></section><section style="max-width: 100%;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">要么给别人创造价值，要么向别人展现你的潜在价值。</span><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">只想在人家身上找机会，他人凭什么要买账？</span></section><section style="max-width: 100%;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"/></section><section style="max-width: 100%;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">正所谓穷在闹市无人问，富在深山有远亲。</span><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">你有用的时候，朋友才多；</span><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">你没用的时候，路人最多。</span></section><section style="max-width: 100%;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br/></section><section style="max-width: 100%;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(214, 168, 65);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">社交的唯一捷径，就是提高自己的核心竞争力。</span></strong></section></section></section></section></section><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="margin-top: 0.5em;margin-bottom: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;background-color: rgb(85, 180, 148);height: 3px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br/></section></section></section><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p></p><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);font-size: 16px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="margin-top: 10px;margin-bottom: 10px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;text-align: center;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;vertical-align: middle;display: inline-block;line-height: 0;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br/></section></section><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="margin-top: -50px;margin-bottom: 10px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;text-align: right;justify-content: flex-end;isolation: isolate;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;display: inline-block;width: 541.582px;height: 60px;vertical-align: top;overflow: hidden;background-color: rgb(85, 180, 148);overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;display: flex;flex-flow: row nowrap;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="margin-left: 10px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;display: inline-block;vertical-align: middle;width: auto;flex: 100 100 0%;align-self: center;height: auto;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;font-size: 24px;color: rgb(242, 253, 248);text-align: left;line-height: 1.2;letter-spacing: 2px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">圈子定律</strong></p></section></section><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;display: inline-block;vertical-align: middle;width: 216.621px;flex: 0 0 auto;align-self: center;height: auto;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;display: inline-block;vertical-align: top;width: 72.1875px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><svg viewbox="0 0 1 1" style="float:left;line-height:0;width:0;vertical-align:top;"></svg></section></section><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;display: inline-block;vertical-align: top;width: 72.1875px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><svg viewbox="0 0 1 1" style="float:left;line-height:0;width:0;vertical-align:top;"></svg></section></section><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;display: inline-block;vertical-align: top;width: 72.1875px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="margin-top: 20px;margin-bottom: 20px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;text-align: center;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;display: inline-block;width: 16px;height: 16px;vertical-align: top;overflow: hidden;background-color: rgb(220, 249, 237);border-width: 0px;border-radius: 20px;border-style: none;border-color: rgb(62, 62, 62);overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><svg viewbox="0 0 1 1" style="float:left;line-height:0;width:0;vertical-align:top;"></svg></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="margin-top: -30px;margin-bottom: 10px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;display: inline-block;width: 676.992px;vertical-align: top;background-color: rgba(85, 180, 148, 0.13);overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="margin-top: 50px;margin-bottom: 30px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="padding-right: 30px;padding-left: 30px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;color: rgb(85, 180, 148);line-height: 1.8;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">你知道猩猩每天需要给多少个同伴梳毛吗？</span></section><section style="max-width: 100%;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"> </span></section><section style="max-width: 100%;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">英国进化学家邓巴研究证实，猩猩通过梳毛来交流。这种独特的语言，会在150个同伴之间传播。</span></section><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><section style="max-width: 100%;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">为什么？</span></section><section style="max-width: 100%;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"> </span></section><section style="max-width: 100%;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">为了找到答案，邓巴开始研究英国人寄圣诞贺卡的习惯。</span></section><section style="max-width: 100%;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"/></section><section style="max-width: 100%;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">他发现，一个人寄出贺卡，收到的人口总和平均是153.5人，约等于150人。</span></section><section style="max-width: 100%;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"> </span></section><section style="max-width: 100%;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">这意味着：即使你有成千上万的朋友，真正对生活起到推动作用的，只有寥寥150人。</span></section><section style="max-width: 100%;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"> </span></section><section style="max-width: 100%;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">这一颠覆性的结果，被称为“圈子定律”：人类只能和150人建立实质关系，数量越多，成员之间的关系越淡化。</span></section><section style="max-width: 100%;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"> </span></section><section style="max-width: 100%;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">生活是个圈，年纪越大，圈子里的人越多，留给陌生人的空间越狭窄。</span></section><section style="max-width: 100%;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"/></section><section style="max-width: 100%;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">人类真的没办法和太多人建立实质性的关系。</span></section><section style="max-width: 100%;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"/></section><section style="max-width: 100%;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">年轻时对谁都热情，总想多认识一些“人脉”，但随着年纪增长，你会发现新认识的人越多，在每个朋友身上花费的精力越少。</span></section><section style="max-width: 100%;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"/></section><section style="max-width: 100%;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(214, 168, 65);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">把有限的时间花在有限的人身上，才能产生真正的交情，打造真正适合自己的生活。</span></strong></section></section></section></section></section><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="margin-top: 0.5em;margin-bottom: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;background-color: rgb(85, 180, 148);height: 3px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><svg viewbox="0 0 1 1" style="float:left;line-height:0;width:0;vertical-align:top;"></svg></section></section></section></section><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);font-size: 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break-word !important;"><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;display: flex;flex-flow: row nowrap;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="margin-left: 10px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;display: inline-block;vertical-align: middle;width: auto;flex: 100 100 0%;align-self: center;height: auto;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;font-size: 24px;color: rgb(242, 253, 248);text-align: left;line-height: 1.2;letter-spacing: 2px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">错误定律</strong></p></section></section><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;display: inline-block;vertical-align: middle;width: 216.621px;flex: 0 0 auto;align-self: center;height: auto;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;display: inline-block;vertical-align: top;width: 72.1875px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><svg viewbox="0 0 1 1" style="float:left;line-height:0;width:0;vertical-align:top;"></svg></section></section><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;display: inline-block;vertical-align: top;width: 72.1875px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><svg viewbox="0 0 1 1" style="float:left;line-height:0;width:0;vertical-align:top;"></svg></section></section><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;display: inline-block;vertical-align: top;width: 72.1875px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="margin-top: 20px;margin-bottom: 20px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;text-align: center;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;display: inline-block;width: 16px;height: 16px;vertical-align: top;overflow: hidden;background-color: rgb(220, 249, 237);border-width: 0px;border-radius: 20px;border-style: none;border-color: rgb(62, 62, 62);overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><svg viewbox="0 0 1 1" style="float:left;line-height:0;width:0;vertical-align:top;"></svg></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="margin-top: -30px;margin-bottom: 10px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;display: inline-block;width: 676.992px;vertical-align: top;background-color: rgba(85, 180, 148, 0.13);overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="margin-top: 50px;margin-bottom: 30px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="padding-right: 30px;padding-left: 30px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;color: rgb(85, 180, 148);line-height: 1.8;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(214, 168, 65);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">人们日常所犯的最大错误，是对陌生人太客气，对亲密的人太苛刻，这就是“错误定律”。</span></strong></section><section style="max-width: 100%;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"/></section><section style="max-width: 100%;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">放眼现实生活，你会发现一个扎心的事实：</span></section><section style="max-width: 100%;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"/></section><section style="max-width: 100%;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">越陌生，越礼貌客气；越亲密，越无所顾忌。</span></section><section style="max-width: 100%;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"/></section><section style="max-width: 100%;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">很多人把最好的脾气留给陌生人，却把最坏的脾气留给最亲的人。</span></section><section style="max-width: 100%;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"/></section><section style="max-width: 100%;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">之所以会出现这样的反差，一个重要原因是，在有些人看来，外人不能得罪，家里人就无所谓，反正家里人也不会记仇，也不会影响自己的利益。</span></section><section style="max-width: 100%;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"/></section><section style="max-width: 100%;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">殊不知，一味地对家人刻薄，久而久之就会恶性循环，家庭生活便会出现危机和裂缝。</span></section><section style="max-width: 100%;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"/></section><section style="max-width: 100%;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">愿我们都记住：幸福的家庭需要经营，好好说话是一个家庭最好的风水。</span></section></section></section></section></section><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="margin-top: 0.5em;margin-bottom: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;background-color: rgb(85, 180, 148);height: 3px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><svg viewbox="0 0 1 1" style="float:left;line-height:0;width:0;vertical-align:top;"></svg></section></section></section></section><section style="max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"/></section><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);font-size: 16px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="margin-top: 10px;margin-bottom: 10px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;text-align: center;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;vertical-align: middle;display: inline-block;line-height: 0;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br/></section></section><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="margin-top: -50px;margin-bottom: 10px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;text-align: right;justify-content: flex-end;isolation: isolate;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;display: inline-block;width: 541.582px;height: 60px;vertical-align: top;overflow: hidden;background-color: rgb(85, 180, 148);overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;display: flex;flex-flow: row nowrap;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="margin-left: 10px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;display: inline-block;vertical-align: middle;width: auto;flex: 100 100 0%;align-self: center;height: auto;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;font-size: 24px;color: rgb(242, 253, 248);text-align: left;line-height: 1.2;letter-spacing: 2px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">评价定律</strong></p></section></section><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;display: inline-block;vertical-align: middle;width: 216.621px;flex: 0 0 auto;align-self: center;height: auto;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;display: inline-block;vertical-align: top;width: 72.1875px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><svg viewbox="0 0 1 1" style="float:left;line-height:0;width:0;vertical-align:top;"></svg></section></section><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;display: inline-block;vertical-align: top;width: 72.1875px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><svg viewbox="0 0 1 1" style="float:left;line-height:0;width:0;vertical-align:top;"></svg></section></section><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;display: inline-block;vertical-align: top;width: 72.1875px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="margin-top: 20px;margin-bottom: 20px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;text-align: center;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;display: inline-block;width: 16px;height: 16px;vertical-align: top;overflow: hidden;background-color: rgb(220, 249, 237);border-width: 0px;border-radius: 20px;border-style: none;border-color: rgb(62, 62, 62);overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><svg viewbox="0 0 1 1" style="float:left;line-height:0;width:0;vertical-align:top;"></svg></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="margin-top: -30px;margin-bottom: 10px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;display: inline-block;width: 676.992px;vertical-align: top;background-color: rgba(85, 180, 148, 0.13);overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="margin-top: 50px;margin-bottom: 30px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="padding-right: 30px;padding-left: 30px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;color: rgb(85, 180, 148);line-height: 1.8;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">不必好奇别人怎样评价你，想想你是怎样评价他的，这就是评价定律。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">这个定律告诉我们，</span><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(214, 168, 65);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">别人是我们的一面镜子，我们对他人的评价其实就是自己在对方心目中的反射。</span></strong></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">美国心理学家研究发现，一个人如何评价他人，在很大程度上反映这个人自身的人格特征。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">如果对他人的评价多为正面，那么这个人往往具有积极的人格特征；</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">如果对他人的评价多为反面，那么这个人可能自恋、抑郁或有其他人格缺陷。</span></p><section style="max-width: 100%;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"/></section><section style="max-width: 100%;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">你积极地看待他人，就能显示你自己具有积极的人格特征，对方对你的评价也是积极的。</span></section><section style="max-width: 100%;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"/></section><section style="max-width: 100%;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">在人际交往中，一方面，我们不要轻易评价一个人，因为许多事情并非眼见为实；</span></section><section style="max-width: 100%;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"/></section><section style="max-width: 100%;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">另一方面，我们要多看他人的优点和长处，多给他人积极的评价，多传递正能量。</span></section></section></section></section></section><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="margin-top: 0.5em;margin-bottom: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;background-color: rgb(85, 180, 148);height: 3px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br/></section></section></section><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);font-size: 16px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="margin-top: 10px;margin-bottom: 10px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;text-align: center;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;vertical-align: middle;display: inline-block;line-height: 0;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></section></section><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="margin-top: -50px;margin-bottom: 10px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;text-align: right;justify-content: flex-end;isolation: isolate;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;display: inline-block;width: 541.582px;height: 60px;vertical-align: top;overflow: hidden;background-color: rgb(85, 180, 148);overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;display: flex;flex-flow: row nowrap;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="margin-left: 10px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;display: inline-block;vertical-align: middle;width: auto;flex: 100 100 0%;align-self: center;height: auto;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;font-size: 24px;color: rgb(242, 253, 248);text-align: left;line-height: 1.2;letter-spacing: 2px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">分寸定律</strong></p></section></section><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;display: inline-block;vertical-align: middle;width: 216.621px;flex: 0 0 auto;align-self: center;height: auto;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;display: inline-block;vertical-align: top;width: 72.1875px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><svg viewbox="0 0 1 1" style="float:left;line-height:0;width:0;vertical-align:top;"></svg></section></section><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;display: inline-block;vertical-align: top;width: 72.1875px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><svg viewbox="0 0 1 1" style="float:left;line-height:0;width:0;vertical-align:top;"></svg></section></section><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;display: inline-block;vertical-align: top;width: 72.1875px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="margin-top: 20px;margin-bottom: 20px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;text-align: center;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;display: inline-block;width: 16px;height: 16px;vertical-align: top;overflow: hidden;background-color: rgb(220, 249, 237);border-width: 0px;border-radius: 20px;border-style: none;border-color: rgb(62, 62, 62);overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><svg viewbox="0 0 1 1" style="float:left;line-height:0;width:0;vertical-align:top;"></svg></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="margin-top: -30px;margin-bottom: 10px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;display: inline-block;width: 676.992px;vertical-align: top;background-color: rgba(85, 180, 148, 0.13);overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="margin-top: 50px;margin-bottom: 30px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="padding-right: 30px;padding-left: 30px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;color: rgb(85, 180, 148);line-height: 1.8;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 17px;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">人际交往上，有个著名的“心理距离效应”：</span></section><section style="max-width: 100%;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"/></section><section style="max-width: 100%;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">一个寒冷的冬夜，两只刺猬拥抱在一起取暖。</span><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">但它们身上长满了刺，紧挨着就会刺痛对方。</span><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"> </span></section><section style="max-width: 100%;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"/></section><section style="max-width: 100%;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">于是，两只刺猬退开一段距离，但冷得难以忍受，又抱在了一起。</span></section><section style="max-width: 100%;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"/></section><section style="max-width: 100%;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">如此分分合合，折腾再三，它们终于找到一个不远不近的距离，既能够取暖，又不会被扎。 </span></section><section style="max-width: 100%;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"/></section><section style="max-width: 100%;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">这个“刺猬法则”，也就是我们说的八分待人。 </span></section><section style="max-width: 100%;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"/></section><section style="max-width: 100%;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">人和人之间，最大的错觉就是“亲密无间”。</span></section><section style="max-width: 100%;line-height: 2em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"/></section><section 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